Really looking for additional insight (as always) from my fellow DBing friends.
As you all know, I received the H's complaint for Separate Maintenance on yesterday which also included indications that I stole his PP and other documents. This is absolutely not true. I made copies of the documents, and his PP was in our home, just not where originally placed them apparently.
I was in pretty bad shape last evening and this morning waking up with a horrendous headache. Went to the doc; got some meds to help with headaches and blood pressure.
Well my H called. He is being "honored" tonight at a dinner party to be held at friends of ours supporting his deployment. I did not hang up and really unfortunately "had my say". I was not angry and I was not yelling, but I told him in no uncertain terms how I felt. I have held back for a long time because I never wanted to "hurt" his feelings. And I do not believe I did that. I stated the facts. I cannot believe he did NOT hang up. But after receiving the court order yesterday, I needed to say something.
He sat and listened to me (I think); or maybe it went in one ear and out the other. Who knows at this point. I finally said what I have been holding back and it felt good. I then told him I had a call to get on and said that if he wanted to talk at some point, I may be open to that, but that I had to go and goodbye. He said bye. He called me back recently and I did not answer.
I also spoke with my L. I told him that I wanted to stay in my house as I have been doing. The H will continue to pay his portion and I will continue to assume all other household financial obligations. I told my L, as he has known since the day after my H accused me of stealing, that I left a message for my H telling him where everything was in the house. Well, my L is going to take care of everything. I feel very confident in him. He is also going to get the hearing date postponed and revise the separate maintenance because there are many "we, the plaintiff and the defendent" speech through his drafted document.
Well "we" didn't agree to anything. Okay.. I am breathing now. Just needed to post the events of my day.
OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty Me 44 H 51 T 15 yrs M 9+ yrs No Kids "You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."
Who knows at this point. I finally said what I have been holding back and it felt good. I then told him I had a call to get on and said that if he wanted to talk at some point, I may be open to that, but that I had to go and goodbye. He said bye. He called me back recently and I did not answer. 
