My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

[nicole8]

I am torn on what to do... Should I tell him to come home or not? I saw h last night and he was in a pretty good mood, just tired from working all day. We snuggled and he held me really tight. He hasn't done this in a long time. We ml and if was really nice. I can't explain but different in a good way. The last time this happened he was very upset and remorseful almost immediately afterwards and the next day. He seemed fine with it last night and hasn't told me he regrets it.

I feel like he is rounding another corner on his roller coaster ride. I think I am going to try to tell him nicely that it is ok for him to come home but if has to be because he wants to and we need to do things together, communicate, build trust again, yadda yadda yadda. We'll see. Three weeks ago he thought there was nothing to fix buf his tune has changed ever so slightly.