back...I know it is VERY hard to take these little steps and not get excited. A good development? Yes. What did he do though to warrant accolades from you?
In reality if he wants to see her, he will. He is acting like this is the magic bullet. IMO he has to work a lot harder. He didn't do anything here. Now if HE fired her and sent her packing that would be action!
This is about taking your power back. This woman has hurt you. This man has hurt you. You don't owe either of them anything that makes them feel better. You feel better. And I don't know about you but I don't want to hear about or talk about OP. Don't let it touch you anymore. It should not be the focus anymore as we talked earlier today. Don't let him focus on it anymore either as a step in reconciling it is a given right? It's supposed to be over and in the past. So WTF? It is a step he has supposedly already taken.
Check your gut here Lola. Do you really feel better? I think you're coming around to recognizing (and I think rightly)that this was inconsequential to YOU and your M. This is more for him, and he's trying to gain mileage out of it. No ground has been made toward YOU in my opinion.
BTW "did he sign it to her?" THAT is funny sh*t girl! Enjoy your night in the city.
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