First of all NO ONE is tired of hearing what you have to say. And as for feeling like a "broken record" WE ALL sound like broken records because we're replaying and replaying so many of these fears, thought, etc in our heads and on these threads....THAT'S perfectly alright and what this BB is intended for.
NEXT time you're at the mall shopping, instead of seeing all the couples and thinking
Quote: this could be my last year with inlaws as part of family..and feel sad...
try thinking....THIS TIME NEXT YEAR...my H and I can be one of those 'seemingly' happy couples again.
The ups and downs of all this hell are the greatest test of our emotional strength and will that we will EVER endure. But you have to remind yourself what your end goal is and how long it took to get to where you guys are today and how much patience and TIME you'll need to get back to being the loving couple you once were.
I AM the Queen of 'giving up' at times....but I'm still here...I haven't really gone anywhere YET...and I don't suppose I will for quite some time.
Hang in there Sue, YOU have the rest of your lives to work through this IF YOU CHOOSE to do that. T2
