Jamie, that's an excellent suggestion. Maybe I should do it for my DD (who btw isn't shy at all like her mom - who can talk to anyone on any topic) and see if it works for me.

As for analyzing posts from before no I haven't done that I really don't feel like putting in a lot of effort into it. Besides, since my contact with her is so minimal (i've only seen her twice in 3-4 weeks for short periods of time when exchanging DD).

Yeah the L etc is a good idea but I can't be bothered with it all right now - that's how I feel.

I'm doing chores this afternoon, mtn biking tomorrow and then I'll have DD on Sun+Mon. Hope you're having a good time at your friend's.

Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again