I am typically very straight forward..and say what is on my mind..and I think he has come to expect that from me...and perhaps that made me a bit boring..I was too consistent. I want to shake things up a bit. I want to be a bit mysterious..I don't want him to be able to know my next move...or expect a particular reaction..If this makes any sense.
I agree you should shake things up a bit by detaching from the emotional rollercoaster. Strategies don't work. I am quoting from my thread from a person wiser than me. You can't play chess with a crazy person.
The only thing this does is it may make it easier for him to break off all contact. not gaurenteed but I remember saying he has to go or she does so this is the better scenario for you if this works out because he still has his career.
More in a bit I have to go open my wine.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
