8 weeks until D Day!!

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Thank G. I just keeping thinking that I have had the wrong strategy here. When H first moved out, he really had the best of both worlds. I let him have his space, come and go as he wanted to. I turned a blind eye to the OW and H still lots of things with us still as a family. And we were also still intimate. We were getting one. It is intersting that he seemed happy and I was in agony. However he still filed for D.

I did a 180 and decided not to let him cake-eat and things are now hostile between us. Also he is quite aggressive in his communication with me and I decided to not communicate verbally with him anymore. For example, I didnt responde to a text and he sent another one saying he thought I was rude and he always responds to me. (This is not entirely true as he has ignored some of my texts.)

I am not a saint I know that. But yes I do love him more than the OW, and have tried everything to fix our M, to the detriment of my health, some friendships, my job and my self esteem.

At this stage I am not trying to stop the D. I am just doing it at my pace. The next 7 weeks are going to be really hard.