It's not that. It's that if a person has no passion for anything in their own life (except work), how can they expect anyone to have passion for them? Or how much passion can you expect them to have in anyone else? Like you said, I'd have to be a spreadsheet (or a coworker) to generate any interest from her.
The Venezualen waltz champion is just friendship material. I get dozens of 24-27 year old coeds come through the lab. I'll have to tell you about the one who was in the college issue of Playboy sometime.
