SecondChance, How can 50/50 be a high number? Either they wake up and want to reconcile or not. Of course, you will have a say as to whether you want to try again if they wake up. It's an even split right down the middle, just like the flipping of a coin.
You have to be happy w/you. Happiness comes from within and you shouldn't have to change for someone else to be happy. I wouldn't listen to a darn thing he says about how you should be. Why? Because he doesn't know which end is up. Tune the man out and take a good look in the mirror and if you are happy w/the person you are, don't sweat the small stuff.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
