quick question for anyone following my situatiuon - W just called me and asked if she could go have a drink with a girlfriend when i get home....i was a bit silent when she asked...immediateley she goes on defensive and says "never mind, just thought i would ASK"

one of the things she felt in the past was that i controlled her....so now she is ASKING me what she can and can't do...

what do i do? do i let her go, do i ask her to stay home....


edit - she told friend she couldn't go out....now i look like a bad guy to the friends....if they only knew why

Last edited by gman; 03/26/10 08:50 PM.
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