But I just wish I knew if he used me last Wed. He told me after words that he loved me more than just the mother of his child but then nothing! No more talk about dating, nothing. It was like he changed his mind totally.
GF,
He may have used you, he may not have…
The truth is, what happened happened and he probably doesn’t even know why it did…
Whether that is something that will continue or not is up to you…
If you are uncertain of his intentions, and they really matter, then continuing that sort of contact might not be the wisest course of action.
People here have handled this very differently and there does not really seem to be a consensus because it is such a personal thing.
What were your motivations in all of it?
Did you do it to see where he was?
To prove that you still love him?
Because you thought it might bring him back?
Or because you wanted to share yourself with this person?
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
