If you have a H who is chosing his parents over you.....and they are talking him into a D and finding someone "better", then you are going to have problems for the rest of your life....or theirs. Your H is allowing them to influence him way beyond reason
So, is this a solvable problem? (My situation is that my w has chosen her parents over me.) I feel like if I go "dark" or initiate "Plan B" it will have no effect because she's already chosen them over me. In Dumped's case and mine, maybe we have no leverage.
Maybe we just each married someone who was too immature for marriage and didn't realize it until too late--until we were deeply in love with them and had kids (in my case).
It sounds like these situations are solvable only if the spouse realizes it and makes changes. Otherwise it's a lifetime of parental control? I know 100% for sure that MIL and FIL are not going to change. Hell, they don't even recognize there's a problem. They believe they have a healthy and completely functional family.
