I've got to say she is doing whatever she wants at this stage so I shouldn't worry about her feelings when I tell her that I am going to C alone.
It would be great to have her think that I'm done with the R. That I am moving on. I figure that she has her own bank account, looks like she is getting her own credit card. I will open my own account next week and transfer my $ into it to keep it secure. Thanks for the advice Robx.
Our kids don't know that the W wants a D. But they definitely know that R is in trouble. I also need to add that we have an exchange student from Switzerland living with us until the end of June.
My C said the kids should not be told about the D until after exams. Do I kick the W out of the bed now or later?
