Jackie..KAW...you two hit the nail on the head...I have not told him exactly how I feel..this bb and the books said not to...give them space..and I am glad I have..and of course it is a safe feeling not to rock boats..but I do intend to tell him..I just can't seem to take step..but I do feel good that I will do it, I don't want to on the phone, but we seem to talk better..

My dd can't understand that I can be pretty bold and vocal about most stuff, but that I can't talk to him so easy...afraid of rejection I think..or afraid of response..which I have been pretty on target with what I thought he would say.

So......maybe he really does not really want d.but unsure what to do next.

I will think through what I am going to say..kinda wanted to talk to Pastor first to see what she might have to say.

Thanks Sue