BA, I can't imagine how lonely the little girl must feel. My D is almost 6 so I feel it close to my heart. Like you said I really hope her aunts/uncles and dad even step up to the plate.

See this sort of stuff makes me mad at my STBX even more, why this nonesense when things could be so much better, happier together if she would just work on them with me.

I don't believe I did specific things to push her away or at least that wasn't the intent. I had asked her several times to go to Retrovaille or read relationship books or discuss with me her issues or tell me what I can do to make her happy (even when things were good) - she never did any of it. I felt she always had one foot out the door waiting for things to get even a little bit bad and sure enough 2-3 weeks is all it took from us going to camping, having dinners together etc to 'see ya'.


Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again