Allen, I did think of that after I said it. I wished I would have said everyone or kids or family. Other than that statement, I think I got my point accross that a D will be his decision and not mine.I hate that he is pushing it so fast. However, I now understand more that it is a piece of paper, and some day he'll realize that it won't end his pain.
Yes, I would love some advice on how to word this next time I have an chance to say something like this.
When I was telling my friend about last nights convo with my H. She said "He want's his freedom, and he wants it yesterday". I think she hit it right on the money.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10
