Jak,
Sex is such a charged issue. I'm going to have to think about how to approach it differently. My reaction is performance anxiety, and that my W will take it personally. It's hard to feel sexual with so much pressure. I'm looking to my W to change, but I suppose I need to find a way to manage my own anxiety, and to not be avoidant around this issue.

I don't see us talking about this issue in a constructive manner. I'm going to have to change my approach in a way that helps to move us forward.

CL

CL 53 W 54
M 20 yrs.
03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL
10-14' Piecing

"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."

----Tao Te Ching