Great advice Sandi, from someone on the otherside the advice is golden.
Going to call the wife here in a minute to see if she would like to join me at 6pm to eat at the place where I meet my friends Friday afternoons for Happy Hour. Just one example of how I have changed for the better in handling my life. Would have just come home and opened a can of beer and sat on the couch back prebomb. Good things can come out of these life changing experiences.