How to approach W about OM

[OfficerInNeed]

I spoke with him on this matter. He said it is up to her and me to work it out. He said to take it one day at a time. He said to the both of us to be honest and communicate with each other. At the time I told her father I was getting mixed signals from her. He said....

"It is tough when one person wants it and the other does not"
"Both of you have to do what makes you happy"
"Look at me and her mom we are both happier in our lives right now after divorcing"

But her parents situation is way different than ours but he made that comparison. He wants what is best for his daughter and if she is telling him how stressed she is ect then he is going to want her out the situation.

I made a post not too long ago about a situation that occurred when we visited her father and how it was one of the worst days ever in our relationship.

I will say that a few weeks back everytime she brought up her father fixing the house up she would take the opportunity to tell me she was leaving. But last couple weeks she would bring up the house but not say anything about leaving. I am confused....