Looking for help with WAW

[gr8 day 2B alive]

I know that things are more friendly now, and that is great, but let me warn you to be extremly careful about pressing her. You will find all kinds of excuses (even the death of a friend) which seems like a legitimate reason to contact her.....but your disappointment tells the story. Do you see what I mean? I know you can say you were disappointed that she didn't show more concern, etc., but the real reason is b/c she did not return your call. So you will be pressuring her if you are not very cautious. In a case like this, you could just "inform" her about the friend. But asking her if she wanted her name signed to the card with yours signified that you were still trying to tie the two of you together as a couple (pressure) and you used that to try to get her to respond (more pressure). We women can read you men better than you read yourselves sometimes.

I am glad that you are doing well without the AD medication. I use to be on some that made me feel the way you described, which is usually an indication it is not the right kind. If the therapy is working then that is certainly the way to go.

Don't let what I've said discourage you, okay? I don't want to do that.....I just want to help fine tune a few things that might be harder for you to see since you're in the stitch.

I completely agree with you Sandi this is showing neediness.

mza8, you are looking for igns from her that what give you hope. I did the same thing,analyzing her actions and why she's doing what's she's doing. You'll drive yourself crazy.

It appears to me that you are deathy afraid of losing her, I completely understand this too.
Conquer your fear of this and will will have much more success.
She can see this.
Know the difference between a need and a want.

Be focused.