My W has really ratcheted up the ignoring me bit today. We had a company barbecue at lunch and not once has she acknowledged me or replied to anything that I have said to her at lunch. Not even looked at me when I've talked to her. I think I should call her on this. I'm starting to get weird looks from some employees when we are together. Only the owners of the company know what is going on, not the employees below us since we are both project managers. She seems to be having a great time, laughing it up and all. Just a rough day today for me. -Lost Dad
Interesting how her ignoring you has that effect on you, wonder what would happen if you did the same thing to her, she expects you to pursue her, look to her for attention, acknowledgement, etc. and it feeds her ego on this crazy power trip she has to ignore you, she's in control, this is all going her way and she loves it. Take away some of that pleasure she is receiving because you play her game like a good little boy, try ignoring her in the exact same way, before you say she will just love that, just do it and do it for 2 weeks straight, no excuses and watch her break the silence first and then you continue to do this until she gets the hint, you aren't anyone's fool to be toyed around with and disrespected - if you can't do this, be prepared to continue bitching and whining about how she doesn't acknowledge your presence or give you any attention.
