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now if he really does not want me in his life...why sit with me...




LOL! I ask myself some of these same questions! And now I'm going to give you my 2 cents worth. And also it is what others have told me!

Your H still loves you, even though our H are aliens, deep down they still want us to be their W! You are not seeing things, they do care. Time is our friend, patience is our mantra! Hang in there your H will come out of the tunnel more as time goes by. You will sense a "shifting" and seem to not be able to put your finger on what is going on!

And then all of a sudden you look next to you and guess hwat there is your H, acting like nothing happened!LOL You are wondering what in the heck! But there he is wanting to reconnect with you! LOL

How do I know? It just happened to me in a matter of the last month. My head is still spinning! LOL

My advice~ keep DRing, be your H friend, do 180's. And you will need an over abundance of patience. Come here to vent and lean on someone when you feel down! You CAN DO this!

So buckle up you are in for a ride, enjoy, the results are great!

Deb


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