JTB, I think it is a little of both, all I know is I just want to save my M and give it a goodfight!
There is on OW with my H though. That is where I'm confused. It seems most of MLC have other people in their lives. I know he has it posted on Facebook that he is looking to date, and also has told our D13 that he is lonely.
But I just wish I knew if he used me last Wed. He told me after words that he loved me more than just the mother of his child but then nothing! No more talk about dating, nothing. It was like he changed his mind totally.