Just thought of another positive..kinda..I work for an elected official and she is up for reelection..had a fund raiser tonight and I of course got invited..I never told h, last week when he had talked to someone else that was going and they told him that I was going, he told me about that conversation and I said "would you like to go with me"..he said he would think about it and let me know..well I asked him last night and he said he really had too much to do at church..so I just said"ok..so and so asked me to go with her"I never even had given it a thought that he might like to go to that..never did in the past..so I am glad that he said truthfully no, then to just go as he would have in the past..so another positive.
