I hear you Romeo - I've been in Limboland for the better part of almost 2 years, it's no fun. All I'm saying is that if you still have it in your heart that you want to reconcile with her, then being standoffish when you are in the same room with her is not going to necessarily push you in the direction of reconcilliation. Sometimes you have to start over and be friends again before you can be husband and wife. It seemed to me, and this is only my opinion from what you described, that in the last episode when you were together you were doing more to push her away then build a bridge.
Thanks for mentioning my friend. It's a hard pill to swallow right now and I'm very concerned for her daughter.
