Thanks OP Yes there is still OW. Same one all the time. (friend of D) I am read the stages of Midlife Crisis, and I am seeing that my H has been in MLC for possibly about 4 years. Thanks for posting the links.
I recieved an email today also saying that it is killing him that our D is not talking to him. She has had NC for 8 months now. She told him at the beginning, If you choose her,you loose me! The contact I have seen is seeming to go in 2 day cycles at the moment. e.g. spewing withdraws for 2 days contact by text for 2 days withdraws for 2 days.
Thanks again for all your relies and support. I do appreciate it.