How to approach W about OM

[OfficerInNeed]

You know...let me be honest with you. I said something to her that I should not had is was heavy pursuit which may have prompt her to say these things today. I said to her "you know we need to go get a new bedroom set, want to go look?" She said "I don't feel like looking" I asked what she meant by that she said "well its really what you want" meaning 'I won't be here so it don't matter' then I realized what I just had done and went and sat down then she said that about the insurance

Also I had gone upstairs and was up there for sometime and shortly after my last post my W comes up stairs and starts to clean....odd after I just made that post. I heard her in the other room and she must had come cross a card she card for me shortly after our marriage in october. The card plays music and the whole song did play which means she did read the card. Her words in the card were how happy she is to be married to me and that she will always be mine... Could this hurt? It was by chance she came cross it.