that is problem MC..I don't know what to say. Whenever we discussed reconciling..H would always say she is going to leave..when I forgave him for the A last May..he kept saying she is going to leave...so this is really a turning point. I never thought she was going to ever ever leave...and it was hard for my H to ever leave..because of his position- career suicide.

Part of me wants to say..."That's great" EOM
or maybe just.."OK" EOM