It sounds to me like he is in replay. All the spewing and divorce stuff. Is there still an OW? If so he is still in replay. He might be somewhat peeking out of his tunnel but his actions really seem to indicate that he is in replay'
Have you read the resources? I just posted some links on AMG2 thread. You might also want to read the stages of the LBS.
Sorry you are here but make the most out of the time that you are being given by your spouse.
