How to approach W about OM

[OfficerInNeed]

Allen,
Here is the deal. My W father is in the process of getting my W grandmothers home switched over to his name. He is currently doing work on the house. The plan is for him to move in and live downstairs and rent out the upper apartment. My W has told me since the start she was going to move out once that apartment is ready but because it is not ready yet she would co-exist with me until then.

Besides words the only other indication that she would be moving out is she told her father that she would be moving in with him. I heard he say it to him and I read a text message she sent her father.

Up till today it had been two weeks since she mentioned leaving and even then it was not in those words it was implied.

She is not nasty when she says it anymore. It sounds more sincere.

She is not packing if that is what you mean. On the other hand she is not doing much to maintain the household besides contribute to paying the bills. She leaves a mess, I clean it up because she won't.