Mila, there is always hope in any situation. If your marriage doesnt work out in the end, there is hope of something better. Just work on you. In time hopefully your H will figure things out. Hopefully he will see what a wonderful wife he has. It will then be up to you if YOU want him back.

I agree with SecondChance, I dont think it would hurt anything to just valiadate that you HEAR what he is saying when he rewrites history. You dont have to agree. Our MC always told us to say "I hear what your saying" to each other even if we didnt agree.

Stay strong;)

Kissak

"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3
M-37 H-37
S-10, D-15
M- 1993
First bomb- 12/23/06
Came and went too MANY times!
Gone again 10-25-10