Real briefly, it sounds to me like you need to practice detaching from him a bit and working and focusing on just you. Can you try that? Stop worrying about where he is, who is with, and what is he doing. Start worrying about where you are, who you are with, and what you are doing. Are you doing fun things for yourself? Are you learning new things? Are you meeting new people? Get a life...it's a great way to get your H's attention in a positive way!
