How to approach W about OM

[OfficerInNeed]

Unexpectedly this morning after my W left for work OMW called me (3am). She heard from OM that we had spoke and she wanted to hear from me what it was all about. I told her what my friend had told me and that I had to call him.

She said that OM expressed to her that he wants this to all end that he is approaching his breaking point and he does not want to lose his family. As I was talking to OMW, OM called her so she had to hang up. She called back a little while later which I did not expect and said that OM is on his way home. She had told him she had a bad dream about the situation and as a result he left work and went home.

OMW did tell me that OM had said "It's not me he should be worried about it is the other people she talks to now." I questioned my friend about this and he said he really does not see anything else going on, where as with OM it was obvious.

From what I have gathered through-out this whole thing, my W was/is the pursuer.

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On another note, my W returns home from work today and said "I need to call the insurance co." she has a crack in her windshield and needs to get it fix. Her insurance is at our old address and she has yet to change it so she said "I still have to change the address with them...but whats the point I'll be changing it again soon anyway" implying she will be moving out so she would have to change her address again.

I kept my blinders up as best I could. I just walked away and sat down. It was tough because that was the first time in two weeks she had mentioned leaving.