Divorced, Dating, and Parenting

[ClingingToHope]

Sol, when I first separated I felt sure that either we'd get back together or I'd find somebody else and get married again.

I'm starting to wonder now about the getting married again -- especially while the girls are growing up.

There's the time constraints, not wanting to cheat someone -- either a new person or the girls out of my attention.

And then there's the feeling of never wanting to have to go through this again. I was in a divorce support group where everyone but me and another lady was going through their second divorce.

Wow. Twice. They seemed remarkably unaffected by the second one.

Of course, lightning may strike tomorrow and I fall all over again and then who knows how it will turn out.