It's so good to come home and find your friends have checked in on you!
Pushme...seems like a lot of us are m to the same person..take care of you and your kids..as you said they are still litle..you have many years to deal with and being friends sure will help you along the way ..no matter what happens to your r with him.
Wilma...thanks..I have to sit and re read your last few posts......I don't know how to link or I would..I'll check in over on your thread..have you ever considered coming over here to tell all us piecing what works and what doesn't?
Alaskangal..nice ot meet you....he is not pushing d...but did mention "legalLy doing something"...I don't know what to make of it..
KAW..he does seem guilty....or am I assuming again...I had a chance to talk briefly with pastor tonight..she said he had told her that he had a talk with me..of course she is not going to tell me everything he says and she shouldn't...I asked if talking to her would be a conflict..she said absolutety not..we only had a minute but I said that it concerns me that after a year he does not seem to want to try and work on us as a couple..and that he seems to think if we were d that I would then go out with a male...I said I was not interested in looking for anyone else..she asked me if I thought he had someone else...was this a shock for me to hear from her...I said no..I said the ff friend was a problem to me in the past..and she(pastor) said "oh "so and so"?..so he has talked about her..she(pastor) did say that she asked him about "ff"..as she knows they bowl together...he said that she is dating someone new..and with that we got interuppted..but would like to talk further...here I have felt that because she and h are friends that she would be more on his side about things..but she seemed concerned about me..and now all I seem to think about is does she think h is lieing and really has someone else...does she know something I don't...she made it sound like he does not open up to her and I really thought if he did it would be to her..she is very open and upbeat about life and of course God!!
So now I sit here and wonder.......about so many things...the mind is playing with me....is this all a joke with what he's been saying....
