W's troubles are ahead of her. I feel many of mine are behind me.
I agree the best revenge is to live well and be happy. I intend to do my best to accomplish both these tasks. I certainly feel better on a weekly basis with some bumps in the road as we continue to move forward. I'm not so sure I can make the same statement about my W having more trouble ahead. She will always have a financial safety net in place (her wealthy brother). And she seems happy and content with her current life. Not sure what will change those conditions.
As for sitting side by side at critical events involving my children a lot depends on her future behavior. At this juncture I will not be next to her period. It will be a while before any critical events arise anyway so it is premature for me to speculate on what my mindset will be.
M48/W47 M15/T22 S3 D3 In House Separation 10/06/09 W files for D 10/16/09 OM1 discovered 10/28/09 (PA) OM2 in mix early Jan. W moved out 1/26/10 In Mediation (Settlement in prep)
