Quote: let him know up front that I am not ready to proceed with d? I will not hold him back if he wants to file......I want us to remain friends no matter what...but should he know I need or want more time with things just the way they are?
since he's not put any time frame on when things actually will start I see no need to say anything to him...act as you have been...perhaps step it up a bit more in terms of 180's and going places and doing stuff.
