I hear what you're saying but it's hard to imagine her as a very good friend, a good friend wouldn't hurt me this way over and over especially when there's DD is involved. When I see her I see a selfish person. It's hard for me to look at her and have feelings for her because I don't even know who I'm looking at anymore. She's not the same person I married and I'm sure she feels the same way about me.

Besides, I keep being the passive one letting her control the situation which keeps me in a limbo i.e. is she seeing lawyers? when is she filing? if she's filing maybe I should beat her to it? what if she's not? maybe she'll see the light and come back? if she comes back then what? she'll leave whenever she wants...again.

All these questions run through my head all day long. Maybe I should file and give her what she wants.

Last edited by StupidRomeo; 03/26/10 03:47 PM.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again