I'm returning to my original DB identity, and then will lock this thread. I changed my identity to TCBTE at the beginning of my being stuck --- not being able to accept the end of my marriage. I don't think I'm stuck there anymore. I can accept what happens from here. I am facing my fears, conquering what I can at this point---and know that I can get past the rest.
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12