She knows how you feel. You told her on the phone remember? (or at least implied it through the questions you asked) What would you say that would be different? REALLY different? Instead of asking questions you would say that you don't want D, you need her, etc. A big grand romantic gesture. I'm not so sure it's what she wants.
Furthermore, she just told you that she's still thinking about going forward with the D, and that she doesn't want you moving closer. The only thing showing up on her door does is show a complete lack of respect for her personal boundaries.
Our society teaches men to test women's boundaries, to pursue them, even when the woman does not seem especially receptive. Many men are taught that persistence will pay off and she will give in. Sometimes it works. Generally it works on young women who haven't learned how to stand up for themselves. Your W is neither of those LOL.
Just MHO of course.
You can always set up phone consults with a DB coach if you want a professional opinion.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
