i believe it's time to cut the apron strings as well. do i wait for his mother to kick the bucket? what's going to happen when both mother and father pass away? i can kind of understand when a woman clings to her parents. but a man clinging to his parents and having them fill most of his needs? like a friend of mine said "he must really like his right hand".
i just can't believe a grown man can be under such a dysfunctional spell. he was never like this when we were dating. but you know as soon as we got married, mil felt threatened because i was taking over all of the duties and not messing up. she kept sticking her hands in and trying to run my h's life.
to be honest, h can only stand her for a week. i think he just puts up with her. when she calls and babbles, he puts her on mute and watches tv. both of his parents act helpless to me, i've never met any two individuals who were so useless. they sure talk like they're all that but underneath they are a useless waste of skin.
