I HAVE shown her how torn up I was (once in the middle of the mess), but I don't think she remembers that time, or she thinks I was just torn up about the divorce in general-- idk--at that time, she was wanting to hurry up and get the divorce finished to maybe make it easier on me--she was pretty wrapped up in OM then. I'm not as sure it's AS 'great', now.
M:48 W:35 S:16 D:15 D:10 Md: 12 & 1/2 years bomb: Jan 8 ? she moved out about then also Moved in w/OM soon after