D$ - Thanks this was very, very helpful. I have really struggled with detaching and I think this really lays out some very clear steps. The key though with MLC (I think) is to detach in some form of a loving manner. Personally, I stuggle with detaching in this form but at the end of the day it is what I think we need to do in order to not become hardend by the actions of our spouse's.

Once again - thank you for this post.

God Bless,
Eric

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