This statement is coming from a place of anger and frustration.
As usual you are correct. I have a ton of anger right now. This whole sitch just stinks and although I am trying it is very tough to step out of it.
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you are still only at the beginning of your detatchment and it takes time…
I heard this several time and really struggle with it. I wish I could just wake up from this nightmare and at a minimum just detach.
It's almost like every interaction we have causes a little more pain. I try and understand but it is tough. I need to figure out how not to even interact with her. I so need a vacation...so need one.. The hard part are the kids - hopefully in the summer I can take a few days to step away from all of this.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans