Quote: Should I tell him that I am going to do my best to keep working on saving m???? That sounds like a "guess I did not make myself clear" on his part.....he seems to "sound" pretty sure that he does not want to try and save it...so how do I do it alone... Michelles books say only one can save it..should I keep working only on me...and hope that he sees there could still be a chance.. or should I keep working on me knowing and accepting that comes 6 months he will probably say "can we proceed legally"..........oh so many things to decide.
mornin' sue,
wether you realize it or not, you've answered your own question.
you don't have to decide anything right now...all you have to do is continue to work on you...accept that currently h is not interested in "saving the m", and continue in that vane open to the possibility that he may change his mind later on.
