i'm afraid of becoming the was. my fear is that it will backfire (or h will call my bluff) and make h think that i've moved on and it's okay to see other people now. when really, no! it's not okay to see other people. no! when it does backfire, then what?
i'm quite sure h has assassinated my character to his support team already. at least one friend is taking a neutral stand. this friend is smart enough to know that there are two sides to the story.
i did what your w did. i didn't check out but i gal. it sounds like your w started db-ing. dressing up, going out, being mysterious, moved into the other room, etc. i did all of those things too. so far, the response from h has been lukewarm.
i really need some ideas on how to create that sense of loss in him.
it doesn't feel like i have the advantage b/c i'm a woman. h is hell bent on d. i feel like i'm running up against a brick wall.
what do you do when h is trying to block all your attempts to db?
