At this point it's hard to say what she will do. I think she doesn't know how to say it, and she doesn't know how I will react. She's probably hoping I bring it up. I have consulted my good lawyer friend about worst case scenarios just so I have some info when I confront her. She can't tell me that she and the kids are moving sans their father. She has no legal grounds to do that, we are not legally separated, and I see that as kidnapping my kids and running away. And, I have to assume here that, unless she's just a mean, heartless you-know-what (which I don't believe she is), she would have moved the correspondences with our R/E agent away from our shared email account at some point along the way here. Why let your spouse see what you're up to if you don't see him as part of the future equation?