Sent evidence to OM W already and her sister. Should hear about them shortly.
Wife Exposing speech. To be done by phone. Pls let me know what do you think. Too harsh? Too soft?
Clock is Ticking.
W: Hello?
Me
Hi, X.
I just called you to let you know, that I know what you've been doing and I won't put up with it.
I gave you space, I respected your decision of not seeing each, I was a gentleman and you paid me by betraying my trust.
Sure, I wasn't a perfect husband, but while I was still trying to work on our marriage you decided become an adulterous woman. You thought it was a good decision, to go from being a priority in my life, to being second in married man's life. Ok, that's your decision, you live with that but I won't be a part of that. This is your decision, and you're a grown woman and I can't control you, nor do I want to. But you emphatically need to know, I will NOT live in an open marriage. I value myself too much to do that. I wonder, how can someone who speaks so much about love and gratitude can keep so cool about destroying innocent children's lives? Do you have any idea what this is going to do to the children? I guess it's to do with your law of atracction ideas, "take care of your own happiness, be selfish"
I'm starting to like that though, actually, so from know on, I'll only care about myself and what I want.
The old me, who used to consider you for everything, is gone.
You've lost all of my trust. Sadly, I don't trust you right now, and I find the need to protect myself, and our kids. So I'm letting you know that as of today, I'll be taking every meassure to protect myself and our marriage from your reckless behaviour.
I can't trust you.
Oh, and one more thing.
I remember you telling me how you needed a real man and I was just a kid. Well, dear. You see, Real men don't go betraying their wives and their children and chasing lovers.
Real men protect their marriages and their wives at all costs.
And that's exactly what I'm going to do.(You're going to SHOW her this, Frace, not TELL her this). Real men are DOERS, not TALKERS.
bye.
Way, WAY too much. See suggested edits, above.
Puppy
NO TIME TO RE-DO THIS, FRACE -- THE "UNDERLINES" ABOVE ARE SUPPOSED TO BE STRIKE-THRUS!!!
