Hi..guys..I did sleep ok...tossed a little..thanks for the encouragement..LL..you always make sense,and I do feel a peace in at least knowing where he stands. I intend to keep working on me.
Pam..Deb..thanks too...Does seem that h wants me to be able to move on with no hopes for him coming back..why would he think that I can't move on while still being m or I guess s?We have both explored and found new stuff this past year..I am not looking to move on to another man, and he said there is no one else.But as we have all learned he is scared and likes the life he has right now...no committments..no having to work at rebuilding a m..all mlc stuff????AND remember he said he was not interested in sex either...coming from a guy who did pretty good there!!!!!! (when I think that I blurted that out, I could die..)
Pushme..glad to meet you..I definately know dbing has helped..it is so much about ourselves..and moving on with or without the spouse...I am forever greatful for being here.We will be ok.