I don't think you're lame at all, and it's nice to know men have these feelings also. Thanks for posting so we women are reminded that they are much like us with similar needs.
Wait – women have feelings too???? lol
well for what it is worth i think our R talks have eased the "movies" and thoughts to a managable level.
also thinking baby step here, was laying in bed last night and she initiated sexual contact (yeah me!)....
we are being very open about past behaviors (and reminding each other when we slip into them right now) that drove us apart, and are accepting that we both need to make some changes to ourselves and the way we treat/react to each other in order to move forward.
i know others will find out about her A - OM is weaved tightly amongst our friends. not sure how that is going to affect me in the future.....not sure how the inevitable face to face with OM is going to go down (if not this summer for sure by fall - our boys are same age and are on a couple atheletic teams together)
nowhere in my readings have i learned how to deal with the post A “confrontation”...OM texted me some very nasty things about how my boys will grow up thinking it is okay to mentaly abuse women...that does not sit well with me (not that screwing my W does either). I am trying to prepare for this so I maintain my cool and be the better person that I have always been.
M-37 W-36 S-11, S-9, D-4 PA exposed 3/13/10 10/19/10 moving on... most up to date sit
